Today, on Father’s Day, my heart is drawn to the memory of a dear brother, Alexx Ikenna Ekubo-Okwaraeke (Chief Ikuku), whose sudden departure left a void in the lives of so many who knew and loved him.
Alex was more than a friend; he was a younger brother. We shared not only our roots and heritage but also many meaningful conversations about life, purpose, faith, and becoming the best version of ourselves. He always showed me immense love, respect, and affection, and every encounter with him was filled with warmth, laughter, and sincerity.
One thing that has continued to weigh heavily on my heart is that a few weeks before his passing, I reached out to his close friend, IK Ogbonna, to ask about him. I was assured that he was doing well, and I promised myself that I would call and check on him personally. Sadly, I never made that call. It is a regret I will carry for a long time. Yet, in all things, we submit to the sovereignty of God, whose ways are higher than ours.
Although Alex did not have biological children, I choose to celebrate him today because fatherhood is not measured only by the children one leaves behind. It is also measured by the lives one touched, the joy one spread, the kindness one showed, and the people one lifted.
Alex was a father figure in many ways. He had a rare gift of making people smile. He was generous with his time, selfless in his actions, and always willing to help others. He carried a good heart and left countless beautiful memories in the hearts of those privileged to know him.
What comforts me most is knowing that Alex loved God. Therefore, while we mourn his absence, we take solace in the belief that he is resting peacefully in the bosom of the Almighty, where there is no pain, no sorrow, and no more parting.
On this Father’s Day, I honour your memory, my brother. Thank you for the laughter, the friendship, the respect, and the love.
You may be gone from our sight, but you will never be gone from our hearts.
Rest on, Chief Ikuku.
Rest on, Alex.
Until we meet again.
— Dr. Chimaobi Desmond Anyaso
Father’s Day, 2026 🕊️💔
